… hear me?” As this was on Zoom, I unmuted myself and said, “I heard you. I don’t know what to say.” This moment stuck with me. I consider myself a progressive ally … deeply committed to DEI principles, but I felt paralyzed. I wondered: Why didn’t I know what to say? Reflecting on this, I realized that if it had been just the two of … respondents answered with thoughts. Likewise, when asked about behaviors, they also provided answers that were thoughts. I was expecting people to share their …